How To Get Your Fervor Back

​Get Your Sexy Back

4 Ways to Increase Fervor In Your Marriage

Do you feel that?
That little silly tingle sensation and warmth when you look at him?
You don’t do you? You aren’t sure why you don’t anymore but, you feel like you just need to get your sexy back. Something is pulling you to make a change for the better. Sure, your hubby is all over you but, you need to get it back for you not him. Heck if you were divorced like me some years ago and trying to adjust to a new life with just you and the kids then you probably lost your sexy somewhere between dropping off the kids at practice. Making dinner , working one of your jobs left you in limbo right? Hey, this can even happen to you ladies who have just decided to focus on having a better life but, sexy wasn’t included. I get it. You are afraid and lost.

See you think that you can’t get it back or if you were like me you just didn’t know where in the heck to start. You may have been so out of the loop at this point that your body has changed, Hormones have gone up-down, and sideways. Hell, let’s face it. Seems like the whole darn world has changed. If you divorced it’s not sex that you want it's just to get your sexy back for your future Boaz, right? You’re afraid that you have lost the groove.

Most of all, you’re afraid that your right about yourself and that the sexy is just gone bye-bye. Ok, well these 4 tips will help you married ladies get the Fervor back and for you single ladies these tips will help you as well for that future Boaz that’s looking for you.
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1.First thing first admit it. You may be looking a little homely right and not so sexy. Be truthful with yourself. Once you come to grips with the fact that you need to get it together it is going to get better. Plus talk to your spouse about it because for me my hubby was always ready but, because I was dealing with not feeling sexy, he was wondering if there was an issue with him. It’s a really good idea to talk about it. Plus, once a woman talks about what she really wants sexually it sends a chemical to her brain and other areas of the body. This can help increase intimacy in the marriage and maybe a little foreplay can develop? Singles talk to a good friend about what’s going on. My bestie and I talk about these things as a means of support and to get ideas from each other. We both did this when we were waiting on our Boaz to find us. (I said talk about getting your sexy back not, go get your sexy on … lol)
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2.Beauty you must own who you are. Your fervor can dramatically increase if you maintain confidence in yourself. That’s what I mean by own who you are. Focus on finding and increasing your unique female fervor and feeding your inner-sexy kitty. If you didn’t know it, I’m telling you are sexy in some way or another. If you aren’t feeling attractive to your partner you will treat your desires like is baggage so, spend time rebuilding your confidence and I promise you will find it worth it in the sheets.

3.Change Positions, Change Positions. Don’t just get comfortable with one position. It is important to switch it up a bit from time to time. Yes, I am speaking of sexual positions but, also life positions. Like when it comes to the places you make love. When you do something that you maybe haven’t tried before trust me the adrenaline from the excitement will kill the fear. Upgrade the bedroom by creating your fantasy or his. Single ladies, are you still listening? You will want to know this for the future hubby.
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4.Let him see. Now married ladies and singles our clothing is a tool that we can use to respectfully intrigue the opposite sex and enhance our beautiful bodies. Now truth be told men are visual creatures and they love a little eye candy just like we do but, here is the catch the fact that they can only see it or, see the form of it keeps them in suspense for the single ladies and keeps the hubby hungry if you know what I mean because he has already had a fill and hungry for more. Let him see you in your form-fitting dress if you have the body for it. You can show a little leg action with a high heel without wearing a short skirt. You must own it.

Amazing stuff right? Make sure to educate yourself if you are having trouble getting aroused and you are over the age of 40. Some products help with that even for women. Check out Libidia Female Enhancement to your rgt on this page.

Share moment: My hubby surprised me one time with dinner, live music, a lovely hotel right in our town. It was a lovely getaway from the kids and home. Guess what happened? I was all over him when we got into the room. He was like wow! I need to book us a night like this one a month at least. It was different and something I needed. Just the fact that it was different caused my inner kitty to come out. I shared that because changing positions can work in several ways.

Follow me here, you take the initiative to do something off the wall like maybe an in town getaway or what about role play and you pick the character that you feel turns you on because he is probably already turned on. What I can tell you is theses are win, win tips for singles preparing to be married, divorced women that are looking for their fervor and married ladies.  

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